Former Foster Youth Runs for Florida State Senate

Ashley Rhodes Courter Head Shot

Ashley Rhodes-Courter is the quintessential American success story.  Born in 1985 to a single teen mother, she was in Florida’s foster care system by age 3, where she spent almost 10 years living in 14 different homes, enduring great physical and mental abuse before loving parents adopted her. Despite her ordeal, Rhodes-Courter excelled in school because she believed education was the one thing nobody could take from her. Today, she is a New York Times best-selling novelist, documentary screenplay writer, activist, sought-after public speaker—and graduate student. Rhodes-Courter is earning her master’s degree through the MSW@USC program. We sat down with her to find out more about her life, school and the future, which includes a run for the Florida State Senate.

MSW@USC:  You’re the author of a book called “Three Little Words.” What’s the book about and how did it originate?

ARC: “Three Little Words” started as an essay I wrote for the New York Times Magazine when I was entering a contest for high school students. I had written about my adoption day, and I was thrilled when I learned I had won first prize. After the essay was printed, publishers interested in hearing my full story began contacting me.  It was this amazing opportunity to share my story of growing up in foster care as a way to shed light on the child welfare system, but also thank the many dedicated professionals that work tirelessly to ensure horrible stories like mine don’t happen. The memoir chronicles my nearly 10 years in foster care, where I lived in 14 different foster homes—two of which were institutions—and many of which were terribly abusive. Eventually, I was adopted when I was 12 years old. From that time forward, I decided I would commit my life to helping to improve the very system that had failed me.

MSW@USC:  What words of advice do you have for current foster care children and/or parents?

ARC: I hope my story can serve as a source of inspiration for youth, parents and professionals. I’ve been able to work internationally on child welfare policy, and the one thing I’ve learned is that, ultimately, it comes back down to the community level. It’s all about those one-on-one relationships. No one can go through life alone, and my story is proof of what can happen when at least one caring adult steps in to change or influence the life of a child. It is because of a few teachers, volunteers and, ultimately, a wonderful couple that took a chance on a hurt and “damaged” kid that I was able to break all odds and statistics. But my story isn’t unique, and it shows the challenges of foster care can be overcome when we are willing to rally together to support these youth and families.

MSW@USC:  Besides foster care, what other issues are you passionate about and what keeps you up at night?

ARC: My background is in foster care, adoption and child welfare issues, but I am also passionate about a variety of other social and political issues. The next few months will be amazing (but probably sleepless) because on top of being a foster parent and grad student, I’ll be running for State Senate, AND I’m pregnant and due election week! Some people may think I’m crazy, but I’m so excited to see what else life has in store for me. With each opportunity, it only helps fuel my inner social worker and reinforces my belief that everyone deserves to have access to safe homes, education and people who care about them. I’m also really happy to say that my book has also been optioned for a major motion picture, so I’m really excited to see that project come together!

MSW@USC:  Why did you decide to run for Florida State Senate? What do you hope to accomplish?

ARC: I have always had a passion for advocacy, and I believe that even the smallest voice deserves to be heard. I think our current state leadership has really lost sight of what it takes to create and maintain healthy, thriving communities. We don’t have a balanced system, and so many groups and important issues are being completely overlooked. I’m only 26, but I’m also a Trojan now, so of course I’ll “Fight On!”

MSW@USC:  Why did you choose the MSW@USC program?

ARC: USC’s online MSW program seemed like the perfect fit for me since my professional life takes me all around the world. Education has always been a cornerstone of my success, and I knew there was more to come after I graduated from college. I’ve been able to attend classes from multiple states and countries, and I don’t know that I would have been able to complete a graduate program given my current schedule. It was as if school would have interfered with my education. This program blends the best of all worlds. It makes high-quality academics accessible to someone like me who already has a hectic schedule of travel, advocacy, and being a foster mom (we’ve had 10 kids in this last year).

MSW@USC:  What’s your most memorable MSW@USC experience?

ARC: The most wild and hilarious experience I’ve had as an MSW@USC student has to be the time I had to attend class while on a business trip in Italy. I was in my hotel in Florence, and I had the tall patio windows of my room open to enjoy the fresh air. In the middle of my class, three pigeons flew into my room and scared me half to death. I screamed and, subsequently, scared them, so they began pooping all over everything in a panic to get back out. While all of this was happening, my classmates and professor probably thought I was nuts because I was screaming and running in and out of frame in a panic (luckily, I was on mute). When the birds finally got out of the room, I laughed to myself because I thought, “Well, if I were in a real classroom, all of my friends would have been pooped on!” Not only have I had to be an international student, but I love that I have had professors from so many states and even one who lectured from Australia! Having a global perspective is so valuable, and you rarely find that in other traditional programs.

To read more about Ashley, please read, “MSW@USC Student Makes a Run for State Senate.”

  • Jackie

    Good luck on your political ambitions, grad school, pregnancy and foster parenting. I hope that you will get elected so that other foster children and alumni in Florida will have your advocacy skills working for them in the legislature. You have so much to be proud of and as a fellow alum, it gives me great joy to see all of your successes. Keep up the good work.

  • franceska bennett

    My name is franceska Bennett and I grew up in foster care too in des moines ia…my story is very much like Ur’s…I had my biological mom..adopted parents and after them six foster home not to mention the youth shelter intakes and detention visits as well..though out my years…I was taken at 4 months adopted a 6 then placed in to foster care at 12 ..leaving my 5 siblings behind…they came and got me from school..and thats were my journey began. Even though I have aged out and live on my own..working and going to s community college I really have a heart desire…I want to be re adopted…I WANT A FAMILY..I’m. 20 now but its something I wanted since I was 12. A new family.. some one just for me…a mom and a dad..maybe even siblings..(more)but after all that I wanted u to know your story is inspiring not only gives me joy to know someone else is passionate about the youth in the system…but it gives me hope that one day ill write a book and just maybe find a family to love me too…Thanks so much God bless…and may he bless your baby and you in to the senator position.

  • KNS

    You go, girl! God bless.

  • Christian G.

    What a truly inspiring story! Thank you so much for sharing Ashley

  • Cathy

    Congratulations on becoming a success story and a role model for others. I am on the other side of the coin on this. I was a foster parent to two beautiful little girls, that grew in my heart (I say was, because I have now adopted them and given them a forever home). Throughout my time as a foster parent, I have seen all kinds of parents. Some are loving, and others can be abusive. Unfortunately, not all foster parents have the same agenda, and it seems that you really got to experience that first hand. This is what I find to be the saddest tale of all, to be removed from one abusive home and put into another it makes me cry. I wish I could take in all the foster kids, as there is still room in my heart for more. Unfortunately, the house is full!!

  • Christie

    I am so excited! YEA ASHLEY!

  • Deborah Silverstein

    Ashley Congratulations on so many fronts. As a fellow Trojan MSW who had a great career, please do fight on!

  • Lynn Johansenn

    Ashley, have I got an adoption story for you!
    I will look for a way to send it to you, it’s from right here in the Sunshine State.
    Check it out………

  • Sandi

    Ashley’s book was recommended to me a few years ago and I have shared it with many others. She is truly inspiring and reading this caught my eye that once again she is a remarkable young lady. What a wonderful role model for our foster children that despite the difficulties and hardships, they can overcome and become wonderful inspirational people also!

  • shani heckman

    What a great and happy story. The cherry on top is that Ashley has chosen to give back to society. So few who’ve gone through less are giving much back to the community at large anymore. I’m proud to have Ashley be a member of my foster family that is millions strong! go team foster go! .. I made a documentary about LGBT foster youth here: , USC might want to screen it?

  • Amy Swanderski

    I too, am looking forward to attending USC MSW on-line program. Thank you for sharing your story. It is a true inspiration to us all.

  • teresa sievers

    Ashley I just found this! I am not sure on the turn out but I know you will continue to affect change in our foster care system. I am honored to know you. You are doing amazing work and this is true story of survival. Teresa Sievers, MD, MSMS, FAARM, President Board of Directors of Our Mother’s Home SWFL


    Kudos for the drive and determination. It goes to show that even if you’ve had a bad past you can still write your future! As foster children or former foster children we sometimes get stuck on what happened to us and dwell. If you over come that you can do great things. There’s been a lot of former fosters that have gone on to be really successful

  • Juss Russ

    Such a great inspiring story I had to read it over quite a few times. I wish you the best of luck and blessings in your political endeavors and as of late I hope you have enjoyed many opportunities in life.

    Yours Truly

    Juss Russ